REJECTING REJECTION 🎉

The bible says our latter shall be greater than our past and I surely have tasted of that 🙂. Something very profound, generous and overlooked about our God is that •as humans even in denial to His glory He had always been gifting us with strength and it is even more real and glorious to have that strength when we acknowledge Him for who He is and what He does• 🙏.
I want for us to to break a cycle today. I want to destroy and crack open a seed of lies today – I want to talk about something infamous REJECTION ! I want to talk about 🎉REJECTION REJECTION 🎉 !

Hey hey everybody I am Cïey Dada and I am back with yet another art on the art of script behind the piece on your screens and boy oh boy did I grow from this piece and am extra super duper excited to have you in on this knowledge that brought me super growth ! SHALL WE …

The dictionary definition of rejection clearly reads as : *the act of not accepting, believing or considering someone or something*
You know it is amazing how society accepts the unacceptable and clothes it to become acceptable through lies and sin. Today I want to try something totally different that even I am growing from. Shall we call out moments life dearly dealt with us through rejection … feels like salt upon a wound I know 😪. For me rejection started by being born and raised in a home where my parents had no more love left in their hourglass figure of love, and being an early toddler I never understood the damages that this reality caused me and just how deep these damages cut me and sinked into me and made me vulnerable to many harm points. I grew up a bubbly, outspoken and extra intelligent young girl as well yet what absolutely nobody knew is that *I WAS ALWAYS LONELY*. So as lovely as I was with everyone else yet with myself it was a sad and lonely life.

I was fortunate to separate from my parents eventually to move to a total foreign country with a total stranger to now go and stay with my dad’s younger brother – now this was the only man that made me know what having company felt like, what being loved felt like and what having a parent meant to a child. My dad is probably the most biggest introvert I know so far and my mom has a hype character so their marriage spoiling and already at a point of separation I don’t even recall one moment of us 3 sitting together and catching up. I have 2 elder brothers and I am the only girl , third and last born of 3. My elder brothers are amazing souls😍 yet reserved 😓 and growing up halfway across the continent we do not know exactly how to react around each other … There is more finer detail but Christ has set me free from all that pain so it is arghhhh to mention.

From my not so short story above I am sure you can grasp where and at which point rejection found place in my life and heart. This lonely reality turned me into a slight reserved person that grasped well in my mid and final teenage years. Rejection became a norm for me as I had opportunities I applied for not birthing results I expected. Let’s quickly rewind back to a time in high school when I had my first bf and 3 weeks later called it quits because relationships were not my thing and also I wasn’t in reality assured that I could be loved because I believed more in being rejected than being loved and valued – the clown later told me that he only put up with me to prove and win a bet to his friends that I am easy to hook like any other girl – again I found rejection but chose to bottle it up and move on while my rejection files piled up within me. I tried dating again and this was Jess whose story I shared already in one of my beginning posts called *”Closure”* ( please check it out and leave a comment 😍) . I again filed this rejection and smiled whilst deep in hurt.

Fast forward a bit >>> constantly piling up my rejection occurrences I forgot how to genuinely be happy again.. so much so I forgot how to love myself again but yet again no one could tell what a sad person I was because I was constantly smiling – I was so sad that I couldn’t even identify a deposit of love if it were to fall on my lap or in my hands. Life is truly unpredictable and believe it or not *we are a generation full of lovely , empty and sad individuals with so many happy pictures that create and tell a story filled with fantasies to draw away attention from the unpleasant realities brought along by sin*! (carefully read that again).

*DO NOT MISS THE MIRACLES OF TODAY BECAUSE YOU WERE TOO BUSY LIVING IN TOMORROW – START FIGHTING, LEARNING AND TRYING TODAY SO THAT TOMORROW YOU CAN DO BETTER. ~INCONSISTENCY BREAKS DOWN BELIEVABILITY~*

I am grateful I am at a point where I can speak about this and not break down – I prayed God would wipe away my tears and today I discuss and not shed a tear because of Jesus I am free and have got a joy overflow and I’ll rejoice at this because my redeemer liveth.

Believe me I know first hand about the struggles of rejection and it’s consequences. Did I mention that I could probably if not possibly have formed part of a prostitution ring by now if not for God’s mercy and Him constantly watching over me. *I grew up a thief, big liar and an adultress one with an awful dosage of lust and for married and elder men at that*. I remember abusing a little boy I had as a neighbour for my sexual demonic pleasures. I remember that I was roughly 6yrs of age at the time and I once washed myself and got all dressed up and I stepped out to the Checkers store and filled up the big size trolley with toys and actually expected to walk out the store with it as is without paying 🙆🤦😬 whilst my poor dad was at work and I was home alone and funny story I never not once took or ate something from the house that was not mine. I don’t understand and sadly cannot explain my reasoning at that time. FAST FORWARD >>> I became suicidal as time flew by. I was round about 10/11/12 when I would attempt suicide by stabbing myself with the biggest and sharpest knife we had at home because now my rejection files made me become reserved, problematic and absent in the company of my very own family at home and this I really struggled with because anyone who personally knows me knows how affectionate I am. Naturally I am bubbly, outspoken, open, easy and present because that is how and who I am as granddaughter to my late paternal grandmother 🌍🍯.



My rejection files made me available for abuse at school to a point where I no longer had actual friends because I seaked refugee in those who needed me for my academic excellence and that’s it. I remember entering shopping stores and public spaces in general and I would just get lost in my thoughts of how and what life would and could have been like if only my parents did not get divorced and I got to be raised by them. I always felt out of place with my uncle’s family because I thought of myself as an intruder and tried so hard in all the wrong ways to fit in and it just didn’t score or stick because I always told myself you not good enough – it won’t work out – and as I thought of myself so it happened.

*You know God is amazing and serving Him is a great privilege and joy – it is as if you found out already about something great planned for you as a surprise and now you have eventually been given it*🍍

I fought rejection so much and for so long to the point where I made myself available to people , places and events noway close to being worth the effort. Even before God I formed a big person forgetting He knows me way too well. After all the days and acts as a result of my rejection files I now realized that I needed a Lord and saviour and only Jesus alone would do and unfortunately for me I had no one to guide me spiritually because I discouraged everyone who tried ministering the gospel to me years and whiles back. I had no friends too because they saw me through for the hypocrite I truly was. With the world swinging in talks of God and who he is along with Jesus in all different interpretations I now had no spiritual lead, I didn’t even know what to understand of God or let alone who to call Him because the world was confusing me. When I finally turned 15yrs and in the August month of the year 2016 I got down on my knees and raised up my arms and cried out *”I do not who you are or what to call you because I have no knowledge of you and the world is not helping so I want you creater of all creations to consume me , you promised to never leave me nor forsake me so here I am ready to be consumed by you today”* and that was how I had a brand new life given to me and I became God’s own. Life became amazing ever since and I’ve had my faults and spoils since then but that never took me away from God rather even closer. I found a bible believing church to help me know Christ better in our area and I’ve been there since. I made mistakes yes and fell even shorter of God’s grace at times and committed great sins yet His love was always greater. Even as saved I was I still never told God how my rejection files made me to feel even though you’d think to yourself ~that if God truly and surely is mighty then He should have cleared me from it and that is exactly true *YET* we also tend to forget that God is the almighty El Rio – He sees it all and knows it all but gave us all a will. As humans, I myself included if it’s not pride then we tend to form before God and punish ourselves by not telling Him the obvious. God is truly majestic and holy🔥✨. Once I learnt to let go and let God life became easy and I learnt to openly tell Him about how the rejection files made me to feel on Saturday 09 October 2021 and the Sunday 10 October during bible study I learnt that *at times we pray for God to change something in or about someone and it doesn’t happen because THE HUMAN WILL WON’T RECEIVE OR ACCEPT the change you are praying for 🤷 and this is a perfect demonstration of God not crossing our will. God doesn’t cross our wills!!!!!!!!!!! The most critical decision of our lives is giving our life to Christ and I chose to do so and would encourage you and also urge you to do so because *”God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life”* , and this is a famous scripture many of us know but we forget the passages goes on to read *”For God sent the Son into the world not to condemn the world, but that the world might be saved through him”* °John3vs16and17°

I have been through my own share of spoiled sand but then again I conquered remembering that : certain decisions down the line bring fruits that we can look back at and be proud of making because God tests those He loves 😍😌.


¹ Rejection is painful because it comes across personal and loud as – “you are not good enough”
² Rejection only comes with a spirit of lies and brings about division.

Let me encourage you today to surrender to God on everything because : >
You are currently sitting on someone’s salvation, blessing and destiny so get up and make a stand and be available and accountable for what God has called you to and for.


Ladies and gentlemen I am Cïey Dada and amazingly grateful to God that He found me worthy through His holiness. I’m grateful beyond words to be able to be the writer of this growth piece – may you desire salvation as you read it an accept the Jesus not only as your saviour but also as your Lord and begin to grow, grow and grow if you haven’t been growing yet.

Justification

Heya heya everybody this Cïey Dada back on your screens yet again with another growth piece on the art of writing. This piece is titled JUSTIFICATION for a reason I hope you enjoy.

Now to paint a picture of the story for the day – how many of us can recall a time when we felt that we needed to be justified , or when we felt that it just was not fair that ! With that being said allow me to say that the only one who can justify us is but Jesus for unless the Lord has His hand upon something – it is spelt for doom. Blessings are a hectic collection to collect because the devil too blesses and coincidentally the devil blesses in our time of desperate needs when the Lord is trying to get us through something in the background. Imagine a world and times when we were always seen through the right light, how then would this benefit us. The world is a collection of creativity, opportunities and disappointments too. At times things happen that brings the doubting Thomas within us out to a place of leadership. In spite of all the sad happenings of life we are still guaranteed good news that Jesus is Lord and God is still on His throne and what doesn’t kill us only happens to strengthen us – juice.

I feel that at times we need to learn to lean back and fall on the Lords word and His promises. Don’t you think the bible says to love everyone but trust only God for a good reason, how many of us have suffered disappointments , at times we even get feedback only to find out our efforts were sadly not good enough or maybe did not even amount to half the efforts we thought we put in. Truth is if all was justified we wouldn’t need God like we do. Jesus wouldn’t have been born and crucified for us. Many at times we set ourselves up for failure because we place our trust where it ought not to be placed. For whosever places their trust in men should willingly prepare themselves for the disappointments because doing this is basically you setting yourself up for doom. Nothing that the Lord doesn’t bless glorifies Him because remember the Lord says He’ll carry through it all. In my most recent experience I learnt that life tosses us the wrong way at times or maybe we just welcome too much at times and at times to an extreme of us not knowing who we are let alone be able to decide for ourselves. In all this confusion one thing that is for sure is that our conscious will always have a say in it all.

It’s okay to cry a little now and then and feel sorry for yourself but hey you yes you – who has that choice ever helped. Like really who has it helped and under which circumstances. Life is as scary as can get already and yet people are gambling with the likes of that reality with the understanding that tomorrow we’ll try again. Nobody is guaranteed a definite day following the current day as tomorrow and yet people are gambling with opportunities. Criticism is an inevitable part of our lives and what we do with it matters. Towards what and who we channel our anger matters. Towards facing tough times remember to smile because tougher times came to destroy you yet you’ve been justified by the blood of JESUS SO THAT WE DO NOT NEED TO ATTEMPT JUSTIFICATION ON OURSELVES.

Ladies and gentlemen I am Cïey Dada back to say hello and paste and pace my goodbye. Reality is that nobody has it easy because life is a dice being rolled out perfectly to fit you in a picture. If you’ve been growing already then JUICE to you and if not then begin today – begin now and grow, grow and grow always.

INVEST IN YOUR PRAYER LIFE

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Ladies and gentlemen I am Ciey Dada and this is my yet another growth piece on the art of writing. Hope you came open minded today because we about to right some ignorant common prayer aspect errors right here on shoutforjoy.art.blog .

Many at times our attitudes comes against God. Someone back me here because I am sure that we have all heard the saying that GOD ANSWERS PRAYERS //amen// and yes and certain the Lord does answer prayers but you ought to be obedient and have pure prayer motives and always present your prayer in supplication. Just as our homes are an extended dimension of us so is prayer an extension of our belief in Christ. We ought to remember that just as words without works is pointless and so exactly is ones faith without works. Without a source there is no river and so how do you expect…

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INVEST IN YOUR PRAYER LIFE

Ladies and gentlemen I am Ciey Dada and this is my yet another growth piece on the art of writing. Hope you came open minded today because we about to right some ignorant common prayer aspect errors right here on shoutforjoy.art.blog .

Many at times our attitudes comes against God. Someone back me here because I am sure that we have all heard the saying that GOD ANSWERS PRAYERS //amen// and yes and certain the Lord does answer prayers but you ought to be obedient and have pure prayer motives and always present your prayer in supplication. Just as our homes are an extended dimension of us so is prayer an extension of our belief in Christ. We ought to remember that just as words without works is pointless and so exactly is ones faith without works. Without a source there is no river and so how do you expect there to be a flow in your belief if you do not pray – not only pray to bless your meal but pray to communicate with God ?

GOD IS A VERY LOVING GOD , VERY WONDERFUL AND MERCIFUL YET WHEN IT COMES TO RECOGNITION >>> GOD GETS FIRM TOO.

Prayer is what activates the armor of God . Prayer involves the recognition of our own needs. People who know they need to pray recognize they need God. People that do not pray do not recognize the need. Prayer involves sacrifice. Prayer involves surrendering. The word prayer has a sacrifice to it. Those who surrender to God are always helped by God . Another aspect of Christianity is that when you start taking care of others God takes care of you because that is being selfless. PRAYER IS A TANK AND JUST LIKE ANY OTHER TANK IT OUGHT TO BE REFILLED.

-( when you start taking care of others God takes care of you ) – I just want to focus on this line alone and say that it is a sad reality that many people have an understanding I will sit back not pray for myself on my own because someone else always does for me and as ignorant and disgusting and and and and discouraging as it is guys there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with someone else helping okay I repeat HELPING right and not PRAYING YOUR PRAYERS FOR YOU WHILST YOU CHILL and do all that is not worth the energy. Look we all make heaven on our own with help from the holy ghost spirit because that is our helper yet if you sitting doing nothing for that glory how do expect to make heaven your home ? I kidd you not you are not helping yourself at all not at all.

GOD SAYS : you are loved , you are chosen , you are redeemed , you are favoured , you are blessed , you are healed , you have a purpose and an amazing destiny.

Ladies and gentleman I am Ciey Dada this is my 5cents of input for the day. Remember you are a purpose so DO NOT ALLOW YOURSELF GET DEFEATED. I say if you willing God is willing , if you struggling God can help. Reach out so that you can grow , grow and grow if you have not yet started growing because growth is not easy yet it is worth it.

Have you ever.

Brandy – “have you ever” 🎶
Have you ever loved somebody so much
It makes you cry
Have you ever needed something so bad
You can’t sleep at night
Have you ever tried to find the words
But they don’t come out right
Have you ever have you ever
Have you ever been in love
Been in love so bad
You’d do anything to make them understand
Have you ever had someone steal your heart away
You’d give anything up to make them feel the same
Have you ever searched for words to get you in their heart
But you don’t know what to say
And you don’t know where to start
✨Have you ever loved somebody so much ✨
It’s makes you cry
Have you ever needed something so bad
You can’t sleep at night
Have you ever tried to find the words
But they don’t come out right
Have you ever, have you ever
Have you ever found the one
You’ve dreamed of all your life
You’d do just about anything to look into their eyes
Have you finally found the one you’ve given your heart to
Only to find that one won’t give their heart to you
Have you ever closed your eyes and
Dreamed that they were there
And all you can do is wait for that day when they will care
✨Have you ever loved somebody so much ✨
It’s makes you cry
Have you ever needed something so bad
You can’t sleep at night
Have you ever tried to find the words
But they don’t come out right
Have you ever, have you ever
What do I gotta do to get you in my arms baby
What do I gotta say to get to your heart
To make you understand how I need you next to me
Gotta get you in my world
‘Cuz baby I can’t sleep
✨Have you ever loved somebody so much ✨
It’s makes you cry
Have you ever needed something so bad
You can’t sleep at night
Have you ever tried to find the words
But they don’t come out right
Have you ever, have you ever

Good day everybody, this is Cïey Dada on the art of writing and today’s script piece has an unusual beginning looking at my various art pieces but its got growth to it ✨. Have you ever 🎹 Have you ever 🎶 Have you ever 🏖️

Have you ever had a single person that your entire life revolves around other than yourself. Like you’ve got many people that are your secure space or maybe spaces but then there is that one person that is your creme de la creme. This one person is the cherry on top of your cake which is your life . I refuse to use the “center of your universe/world” phrase because God should be at the center of your entire life and world because you put Him in His authority there and not because the world encourages this. CHRISTIANITY IS A CHOICE !!! THE BEST CHOICE AT THAT 👍.

My creme de la creme, my source of joy , my cherry that crown my life as a cake is … //drum sounds please 🎥 >>> … ME PAPA 😌. Heaven knows that is my left handman since I am right handed 🙃. I define love based on my relationship with him. I would not be surprised if I happen to love him more than I love myself. My poor husband will have to understand me here because I am being moulded into this rare wheel and not a spare wheel because my dad made time for me . He was and is more than just my male parent as definitions of a father would pop up as on search results.

Today I got even bigger standards in terms of the type of man to settle with and not for and that is because I saw life through my dad and if I’ll become wife to anyone then gaga you got to reach my dad’s point of standard and my pastors point of standards and double it or at least really try to and if you not there yet then at least be open minded because the lid of my open minded trait is not resealable 😌. It is either yes or the highway.

For anyone who grew up without a father if he returned to his dust form then cling to a spiritual leader who preaches of the true and honest gospel and not a mere instructor. If your father ran away then gaga his loss as for you just take heart , beare no grudge because it is not worth and never will be worth your peace of mind but then do not make yourself vulnerable to males out there that just want your vulnerability to their advantage to satisfy their sick pleasures such as sexual pleasures , set standards for your life that you’d love your children to witness. Viola now if you always had and still do got a father who doesn’t just carry that title but genuinely is your father than make yourself proud by doing him proud 🦋. 🙌

Guys the world has happiness in it that you too can experience so go for it. It is not always easy as ABC but at times you just need to stop being too hard especially on yourself 😥😩. Part of happiness is being a parent – no do not go give birth or impregnate all over the show – no please you are too old to be told not to fool yourself, please act your age and the maturity weight of the words your mouth can shoot out. I mean get married , have children and please don’t own pet animals for children 😭 have actual children – build a home and family for and with them and experience happiness through their lives.🙌

Ladies and gentlemen that is my love for you coming through as a growth piece. Quick word : at times we ask God to speak to us and when He does we do hear but do not listen. Learn to pray not until God hears you but pray until you hear God. (Read that again and s l o w l y). My growth piece was thought of last week , which was “20 June 2021” ,after hugging my dad and wishing him a HAPPY FATHER’S DAY💗. If you a FATHER reading this may the Lord of my prayers bless you hero – and if you a single mom parent then may the Lord of my prayers bless you heroin too because you muscled up and realized that giving up is not an option. If you a son//daughter soughting a father then the Lord , saviour over your life wants to use your life experience to bless , punctuate and grow you and others through your story. Have a blessed time reading this – read and grow today, grow tomorrow and grow always 💋

Pro-claim-ing. Whichever breakup of the word you go for has to have claim in it so we might as well say *claim*

Welcome back everyone or welcome everyone to shout4joyarts blog. I am Cïey Dada and this is my growth drill with the art of writing and this piece is here just for you. Let’s say today’s piece is going on hard for the self love/ growth platform.

•I am capable of creating healthy relationships even if I didn’t witness then growing up. •I am capable of being loved and giving love , even if I’ve been deprived of love before. •I am capable of creating a safe and loving home environment even if it’ll be the first one I’ve been in. •I am capable of creating a life with all the things I desire , emotional and material, even if I’m providing it to myself for the first time.

Sometimes , when you are trying to avoid a conflict , especially one with yourself , you end up causing it and even worse .
When 😥>>>>>>>>> … •You create confusion by not being clear and direct with your ask or need.
• You lie about feeling hurt , but it shows especially with and in your energy and actions.
•You ignore problems , and end up addressing them when you’ve reached your breaking point.
You say yes to things you don’t want to do – and it shows.

In the kingdom of heaven >>> success isn’t measured by how much you do for Jesus but rather , how close you are to JESUS. Ladies and gentlemen with that being said one ought to remember that just because you come across something online that appeals to your current trouble or the lot of it that doesn’t mean that you should adopt the whole piece of supposed advice _ no adopt it to the point where it helps you – use it as a reflective point or reference point for your practice, but do not make it your own. It is Wednesday, 23 June 2021 in South Africa >>> I am Cïey Dada and that is my Wednesday affirmation growth piece of growth and peace … Do enjoy it and remember to grow beyond your expectation (s) – grow today, grow tomorrow, grow then , grow now and grow always because you are a seed of growth and a seed can never be buried 💋.

Pro-claim-ing. Whichever breakup of the word you go for has to have claim in it so we might as well say *claim*

Welcome back everyone or welcome everyone to shout4joyarts blog. I am Cïey Dada and this is my growth drill with the art of writing and this piece is here just for you. Let’s say today’s piece is going on hard for the self love/ growth platform.

•I am capable of creating healthy relationships even if I didn’t witness then growing up. •I am capable of being loved and giving love , even if I’ve been deprived of love before. •I am capable of creating a safe and loving home environment even if it’ll be the first one I’ve been in. •I am capable of creating a life with all the things I desire , emotional and material, even if I’m providing it to myself for the first time.

Sometimes , when you are trying to avoid a conflict , especially one with yourself , you end up causing it and even worse .
When 😥>>>>>>>>> … •You create confusion by not being clear and direct with your ask or need.
• You lie about feeling hurt , but it shows especially with and in your energy and actions.
•You ignore problems , and end up addressing them when you’ve reached your breaking point.
You say yes to things you don’t want to do – and it shows.

In the kingdom of heaven >>> success isn’t measured by how much you do for Jesus but rather , how close you are to JESUS. Ladies and gentlemen with that being said one ought to remember that just because you come across something online that appeals to your current trouble or the lot of it that doesn’t mean that you should adopt the whole piece of supposed advice _ no adopt it to the point where it helps you – use it as a reflective point or reference point for your practice, but do not make it your own. It is Wednesday, 23 June 2021 in South Africa >>> I am Cïey Dada and that is my Wednesday affirmation growth piece of growth and peace … Do enjoy it and remember to grow beyond your expectation (s) – grow today, grow tomorrow, grow then , grow now and grow always because you are a seed of growth and a seed can never be buried 💋.

Growth is not easy

A very goooooooood morning everybody and welcome back to my growth page. So with today’s growth piece we going to be discussing the ways of growth.

First things first everybody we ought to understand that : “GROWTH IS NOT EASY” 🙃

With a few of us to earn an income at home we had to complete our given chore(s) as frequent as agreed upon. Perhaps you might think it’s not necessary but hey look at it this way … whilst you completing your duty you also earning an income and learning very essential skills [HELLO]. Guys look at this you need to be serious about what you doing *DON’T TELL YOURSELF THAT YOU TOO YOUNG TO DO SOMETHING AND OR ACCOMPLISH SOMETHING* because oh no boo boo , IF TIMOTHY AND SAMUEL TOO WERE YOUNG YET THEY MADE THINGS HAPPEN. If your personal dreams they don’t motivate you enough then oops check again. Open to a world of reality and possibilities awaiting you to go extra to achieve and rock them. Things happen better and greater if you’d actually show up for them.

Guys treasure whatsoever you’ve got with whomsoever you’ve got because this whole feel of * you never know what you’ve got until you’ve lost it* is not what you’d want to experience. Dreams are worth fighting for. Growth is worth fighting for. Peace is worth fighting for. Joy is worth fighting for. Your happiness is worth fighting for. If you look deep enough you’d realize that everything was already made available for you and all you got to do is go hard for them.

Ladies and gentlemen it’s Cïey Dada again on script and hope you’ll go hard for your growth because it is worth it since you are worth it. So remember to grow and glow always and maybe a little more at times 💋.

Different.

Greetings everybody it’s Cïey Dada again and I am back with yet another versatile virtual growth piece. There is absolutely no place on this earth that has everything exactly the same. Nope there is not. For even same company franchises differ perhaps in service depending on where they open for business.

Imagine a world where everyone looked a specific way and that is in accordance to but one thing , where we all dressed as one , spoke like one … just imagine that. The thought of a world like that is drooling and catchy yet we all know it’s impossible. For when God created us in His image He could easily have had chosen to create us all looking the same yet He did not and as for me I love that because I love variety , I love the knowledge, peace, exposure and chance upon chances of opportunities that come with being with and within difference and placed in different spaces.

Even with the disciples nobody looked the same and even though Jesus knew everyone , their names and their deeds nothing about them was exactly the same and this helped to differentiate them in their various roles that they played by Jesus’ side as His disciples. A great example of the beauty of differentiation would be identical twins , yes they identical because they look alike but beware that though those two might be physically identical because of their appearances and maybe height too yes and they match attires too at times if not always and this could probably worsen the chances of differentiating them correctly. Yet it is very rare too that you’d find their likes to be the same or their goals.

God made us all different to fulfill His joy and that of ourselves as we live on this earth. I for one only learnt something about myself back in 2020. This truth was made known to be by a friend that one side of my entire body parts as a collection in comparison to the other is of a larger piece and you could stare at me for hours maybe more or maybe less and if you spot on you could perhaps notice this slightly immediately. Funny story I loved me more becauseI didn’t care because after this one friend’s statement I heard it about 2 or 3 times again from other people. Look confidence is something of within. If you ace it on the inside it will eventually if not immediately show on your outside 🦋.

We were and we’re all perfectly, beautifully, powerfully and wonderfully made to suit God’s description, definition and placement of and for us. Stop fighting society and its people’s opinions about you – true it is bound to hurt you and at times disturb your peace and ease but you ought to remember the battle is the Lords’ and that too has its perks of beauty 🦋😊.

Ladies and gentlemen it is Cïey Dada behind the keyboard and I’m proud to have written the growth piece you had just read. Remember to grow here , grow there , grow then , grow today , grow tomorrow and grow and glow always 💋

Acceptance

Good day ladies and gentlemen I am Cïey Dada back on script and we about to grow today because this piece has certain truths that has to be told. Maybe you need to tell it to yourself or someone has to tell it to you but then either way we about to grow everybody, so let’s get to it.

So I’ve titled today’s piece acceptance. In a simple dictionary meaning acceptance means: taking something that somebody offers you or asks you to have … well that definition was not what or made neither of the point or points I was trying to get to make here. The acceptance I’m talking about is when you get to the point of gratitude and have all your responses be like  “yes Lord , thank you Lord, your way lord , your word Lord” or the popular saying these days is “it is what it is” . Now with that being said I’m not encouraging the type of acceptance where you’d stick around to be taken advantage of. Sadly so in life at times when we put others first – when we altruistic then we taken advantage of.

The point I’m trying to make or type of acceptance I’m trying to explain is that when you come to a reality check and reflection enough to realize that “hey I’m actually getting wasted here” . Now once again when I say wasted I’m not speaking of drinking yourself beyond control to get away from your reality for as long as you’ll be under the influence. Guys  I’m talking about sticking around and getting wasted by people you know are purposefully wasting literally anything and everything you offering and this is because you around, available and reliable.

Not everyone we picture ourselves together with will actually end up part of our lives . Allow that to sink in because it is a tough pill to swallow and I know so. We might say I don’t care infront of others but at times we cannot come to terms with reality from within. You know it is true as lighting ones mind is a very powerful weapon because at times we meet people and or situations and we already picture and project how everything will turn out and when it does we shatter.

Well that is why we are encouraged to love everyone on earth and yet trust absolutely NOBODY. Only God deserves our trust because He is not a man to lie and or fail us if only you’d avail yourself for Him.

So I wrote today’s post because I know at times if not every day and in every situation we choose to overlook the truth because it hurts us. Well then unfortunately sulking will help NOBODY because it hasn’t done so before and it certainly won’t start now.

My encouragement today is that we accept ourselves and our lives as is. Accept your family as is – not everyone was fortunate to be born in a family where money is a member of the family. Not everyone can live in the same societal status because we won’t know ourselves. Accept your standout points for what they are. Accept that you won’t be like everyone else. Accept that even as a family you won’t always be at peace and ease with one another yet they the exact same people you wouldn’t exchange in this world. Accept that not everyone will understand your logic , not even your own mother but then that’s why you are related and not exactly in the same body 😁.

Quick testimony on behalf of a friend : her dad left them because the mom had two daughters and he so badly wanted a son, that thing damaged the entire household’s relationship with the dad. I mean like it’s the male organism that actually determines the gender of a child but then that is the sad and disgusting reality of many of our African homes. So the dad left the family  and left the mom to single handedly care for the girls on her own. This caused the mother’s family to label her all sorts of common names along with the husband’s family too because she couldn’t save her marriage. My friend battled with so much insecurities growing up because at first they would force themselves to be in the dad’s life, or have him in their lives but it didn’t work until they were encouraged by who I cannot remember to prayer to God for acceptance and slowly but surely the void still had it’s effects but yoh we move and they moved for the better because they can now come to terms with reality and just be grateful to God because it is His will to be done and not theirs. I witnessed her grow and change for the better once she had accepted this prayer and actually did t just pray it no more for the sake of prayer but she changed for the better because she trusted God to fill this having a father figure in her life ambition for her and hey He did and does. I mean imagine knowing the area your parent lives in but you go there praying to not see him because it ends in on one insult or the other. We human you know and eventually we put our foot down and be like that’s it I’m done then that’s it.

Guys the world and the life we live on these grounds are nowhere compared to those we would love with Christ one day but it can be if you ensure every moment of yours is lived in peace , gratitude and acceptance towards what you cannot control.

Today I encourage you to pray to God to be able to remain going when nothing is working out for you, Tru dat that maybe you’ll loose some and have to start at the very beginning to build up again but what else would you do that go back to the source and often when you go check out your source you’d realize there is an innocent lack of acceptance there. Pray to God that you can do your best in all situations. Pray that you can accept reality without always asking why because then you’ll be able to hear God say “ENOUGH” as response to all you battle with , because” the battle is the Lords’* beloved.

Last but not least if you are in South Africa or just know about it then *Happy Youth Day*. I say celebrate your youth because with the blink of an eye it might all be over and with that being sad be wise how you celebrate 💋.

Ladies and gentlemen I’ve spoken quite a lot but hope that I’ve gotten a message across if not 02 on acceptance. It’s a very sensitive topic for many others and forgive me if I came across unsympathetic at all in any of my lines but then hey somebody has to be the bad guy in order for us all to genuinely and fully grow and keep at that feel(s) and ambiance.