Well hello , hi there and how do you do. I go by the username Cïey Dada and I’ve brought with me a different topic today to the usual. Oh no the topic ain’t different just my approach is.

For what it’s worth I am a low-key poet on reality topics and I’m a writer too. For a 20th century born I often shy from writing about relationships entirely and it’s not because of any other reason but what the universe and modern trucks and tricks , cracks and traits have made it to be😩.

To date absolutely nobody has given a definite and simple definition of love. Even Romeo and Juliet who died for love cannot tell what exactly love is. People say love is beautiful, pure , appreciating and worth fighting for but then again what of those who committed suicide all in the name of love. What of those who got disowned for supposedly being in love. You know I have a terrible habit of laughing at absolutely everything especially at the least expectant time to burst in laughter but currently for me the biggest joke is being told Iloveyou from a person of the opposite gender with intimate intentions who does not love their creator or even fights nor attempts to have a relationship with their creator. The word of God which is a lamp unto my feet clearly states that “For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son as a living sacrifice so that whosoever believes in him shall not die and perish but have eternal life”

I really do not know about you and how you’d define love but as for me I know that if my relationship with God through gratitude towards Christ is not going well nor is it active , prioritized and showing then I cannot love another . At the very moment my relationship with God takes strain I automatically forget how to love another.

For man has no ability to be loyal to more than one relation I say choose God because if your relationship with God has your complete loyalty then one can easily identify which relation you’d actually be a benefit to, benefit from and invest into.

Have you ever considered or rushed into a relation for security? Have you ever just entertained a relation because you wanted to be taken care of ? Like have someone think of your needs in your silence? Do you ever just want to be considered like you would do for anybody else? The world is full of uncertainties already as is and adding dependency on someone for security, safety and or consideration is a total hectic NO I’d say. You’d never know the deepest and most darkest thoughts of a silenced voice so how much more can you conclude on their intentions since the thoughts of a four chambered heart of a human is only known to God 🤷🤔.

Life is a total roller coast ride already as is and the wheel sometimes turns for the worst. Certain wounds dry out only to remain a scab. Not all memories will be pleasant but God’s call to all the weary and those who have laboured to find rest in him is free if any financial amount and stress, apart from you accepting him as your Lord and saviour and building a relationship with him.

Truly I say to you and empathize the fact that if you can rebuke and reject Satan then you can most definitely accept Christ as your Lord and saviour because that is of true authority 🍂