#closure

Pro-claim-ing. Whichever breakup of the word you go for has to have claim in it so we might as well say *claim*

Posted on by Cïey Dada 🎨

Welcome back everyone or welcome everyone to shout4joyarts blog. I am Cïey Dada and this is my growth drill with the art of writing and this piece is here just for you. Let’s say today’s piece is going on hard for the self love/ growth platform.

•I am capable of creating healthy relationships even if I didn’t witness then growing up. •I am capable of being loved and giving love , even if I’ve been deprived of love before. •I am capable of creating a safe and loving home environment even if it’ll be the first one I’ve been in. •I am capable of creating a life with all the things I desire , emotional and material, even if I’m providing it to myself for the first time.

Sometimes , when you are trying to avoid a conflict , especially one with yourself , you end up causing it and even worse .
When 😥>>>>>>>>> … •You create confusion by not being clear and direct with your ask or need.
• You lie about feeling hurt , but it shows especially with and in your energy and actions.
•You ignore problems , and end up addressing them when you’ve reached your breaking point.
You say yes to things you don’t want to do – and it shows.

In the kingdom of heaven >>> success isn’t measured by how much you do for Jesus but rather , how close you are to JESUS. Ladies and gentlemen with that being said one ought to remember that just because you come across something online that appeals to your current trouble or the lot of it that doesn’t mean that you should adopt the whole piece of supposed advice _ no adopt it to the point where it helps you – use it as a reflective point or reference point for your practice, but do not make it your own. It is Wednesday, 23 June 2021 in South Africa >>> I am Cïey Dada and that is my Wednesday affirmation growth piece of growth and peace … Do enjoy it and remember to grow beyond your expectation (s) – grow today, grow tomorrow, grow then , grow now and grow always because you are a seed of growth and a seed can never be buried 💋.

Pro-claim-ing. Whichever breakup of the word you go for has to have claim in it so we might as well say *claim*

Posted on by Cïey Dada 🎨

Welcome back everyone or welcome everyone to shout4joyarts blog. I am Cïey Dada and this is my growth drill with the art of writing and this piece is here just for you. Let’s say today’s piece is going on hard for the self love/ growth platform.

•I am capable of creating healthy relationships even if I didn’t witness then growing up. •I am capable of being loved and giving love , even if I’ve been deprived of love before. •I am capable of creating a safe and loving home environment even if it’ll be the first one I’ve been in. •I am capable of creating a life with all the things I desire , emotional and material, even if I’m providing it to myself for the first time.

Sometimes , when you are trying to avoid a conflict , especially one with yourself , you end up causing it and even worse .
When 😥>>>>>>>>> … •You create confusion by not being clear and direct with your ask or need.
• You lie about feeling hurt , but it shows especially with and in your energy and actions.
•You ignore problems , and end up addressing them when you’ve reached your breaking point.
You say yes to things you don’t want to do – and it shows.

In the kingdom of heaven >>> success isn’t measured by how much you do for Jesus but rather , how close you are to JESUS. Ladies and gentlemen with that being said one ought to remember that just because you come across something online that appeals to your current trouble or the lot of it that doesn’t mean that you should adopt the whole piece of supposed advice _ no adopt it to the point where it helps you – use it as a reflective point or reference point for your practice, but do not make it your own. It is Wednesday, 23 June 2021 in South Africa >>> I am Cïey Dada and that is my Wednesday affirmation growth piece of growth and peace … Do enjoy it and remember to grow beyond your expectation (s) – grow today, grow tomorrow, grow then , grow now and grow always because you are a seed of growth and a seed can never be buried 💋.

Hey you yes you get out of your mental self imprisonment ༼☯‿☯✿༽

Posted on by Cïey Dada 🎨

Greetings to all of you beautiful people of all nations and all walks of life. Me name is Cïey Dada and we about to get personal today (. ❛ ᴗ ❛.)

It is already a sad world , sad life , sad realities and holding yourself accountable for your acts ain’t wrong , yeah no it ain’t YET when you choose to mentally imprison yourself for these then that is HECTIC 😩. Like really hectic 🙋

Look we all make mistakes right and mess up yes we all do and at times it’s either better or worse than that of the next person and more hectic at times yet if you can acknowledge at the set of go that you messed up then you owe it to yourself to move on.

So many people are in fear of so much only because they allowed themselves to self imprison themselves mentally of either something hectic they did or had happened to them. Listen don’t you think it is time you move on ? 💆 Like really think about it , all is of vanity upon this earth AND most critically if JESUS can and has forgiven you for the deed already then why are you still living under it’s authority. Listen if there are IT things our generation has mastered and yet maybe not you then let it GO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!💆 . Peer pressure will always be around and have its way yet only if you’d allow it to impact and imprison you then it most defs will not only imprison you but it will haunt you too 😘.

The battle is not your own it is the Lords’ 🧘, so pick your battles carefully and safely because something somewhere out there has to give and if you give in then something out there that had your name to it and yet you still haven’t had it now because you still under the authority of why you got locked on your mind. The heart and mind are the greatest tools of any human yet what you feed it on, what you interest it to , what you addict it to and what you addict it to could and would either kill you or make you.

With the closing of today’s piece I just want to remind everyone of a priceless blessing we all got and that is the ability to pray and whilst you are at it remember the Nation of India with the terrible pandemic wave they fighting 😩🙏

Closure

Posted on by Cïey Dada 🎨

Hey ,how de and how do you do 😌💕.

Think with me for a sec quickly ,what is closure? Well according to the dictionary definition I came across it says closure is :the feeling that a difficult or an unpleasant experience had come to an end. But then again in my case I say not all situations deserve closure. If that situation had ever cost you your peace then I think “closure” is out of the question.

Quick story on a personal experience level with “closure” … So I dated my first and only boyfriend about 02 years 02/03 years back and it was not cool. I have a habit of of friend zoning males because I relate very well with them but then with Jessé it was totally different. I cannot remember when I supposedly *loved* him intimately or when I said “yes Jess I’d *date* you.

Jess and I started dating on 02 March, had out first *date* on 08 March and we didn’t meet again as partners afterwards. So Jess is 03years older than I am and he is all the way from the beautiful Eastern tribe of Nigeria , the Igbo tribe😍 and I looooooove that tribe , chai shout-out to my Igbo people y’all are breathtaking beautiful people.

Yes , yes back to Jess and I. So Jess and I met at my high school of that time on his visit to the school since he matriculated during my third year in high school and we communicated for about 05 months and more maybe before we *dated*

Fast forwarding things … On our first month anniversary his baby sister Amaka whom we call Ami sent me a text out of the blue reading we need to talk , I stared at that text again and again like thrice before I replied saying I’ll wait for her at the park station after school that day. So Ami and I met up and she said it. Jess had someone else in his life that his mom actually called *my daughter* meaning I had no space in the portrait . As obvious as it is Jess did not appreciate Ami telling me the truth and was sorry I got told , sorry he hurt me or sorry that things did not work out 🤷 … Now that I do not know. … It took me another 16/18 months before Jess and I saw each other face to face again and in all that time I wondered if if I went wrong somewhere, I didn’t ‘know’ him too well and or maybe he was the jinx 🤷

I haven’t given anyone else a chance since then because I’m settled with making myself happy for now 🥑✨ because when I finally saw Jess again and he explained his actions that ‘closure’ worsened instead of healing things

Well Jess and I kept in touch yet I purposefully ignore his texts and calls after I reply “I’m glad you doing well” because I’ve heard his girlfriend awaits for me to step on her toes and and she’ll come for me and all but I just hope they keep looking cute together in the long run 🙃.

Today I can proudly say that as much as I desire closure at times I’d rather wring the ears of my creator with me asking Him for closure in worship and prayer than asking from man🌤️ .

Me ? Intimate? Oh well with my creator yes … Intimacy with Christ ,hummn great title for another post on another day so stay tuned and lemme hear your ones and twos in the comments 🌟so that together we can keep at the growth to grow , grow and grow .