self growth

Hey you yes you get out of your mental self imprisonment ༼☯‿☯✿༽

Posted on by Cïey Dada 🎨

Greetings to all of you beautiful people of all nations and all walks of life. Me name is Cïey Dada and we about to get personal today (. ❛ ᴗ ❛.)

It is already a sad world , sad life , sad realities and holding yourself accountable for your acts ain’t wrong , yeah no it ain’t YET when you choose to mentally imprison yourself for these then that is HECTIC 😩. Like really hectic 🙋

Look we all make mistakes right and mess up yes we all do and at times it’s either better or worse than that of the next person and more hectic at times yet if you can acknowledge at the set of go that you messed up then you owe it to yourself to move on.

So many people are in fear of so much only because they allowed themselves to self imprison themselves mentally of either something hectic they did or had happened to them. Listen don’t you think it is time you move on ? 💆 Like really think about it , all is of vanity upon this earth AND most critically if JESUS can and has forgiven you for the deed already then why are you still living under it’s authority. Listen if there are IT things our generation has mastered and yet maybe not you then let it GO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!💆 . Peer pressure will always be around and have its way yet only if you’d allow it to impact and imprison you then it most defs will not only imprison you but it will haunt you too 😘.

The battle is not your own it is the Lords’ 🧘, so pick your battles carefully and safely because something somewhere out there has to give and if you give in then something out there that had your name to it and yet you still haven’t had it now because you still under the authority of why you got locked on your mind. The heart and mind are the greatest tools of any human yet what you feed it on, what you interest it to , what you addict it to and what you addict it to could and would either kill you or make you.

With the closing of today’s piece I just want to remind everyone of a priceless blessing we all got and that is the ability to pray and whilst you are at it remember the Nation of India with the terrible pandemic wave they fighting 😩🙏

Be proud of yourself

Posted on by Cïey Dada 🎨

Well hello there it is Cïey Dada here on script and today’s post will be a bit of a hard pill to swallow and maybe harsh too yet it has to be said.

I have titled today’s art of writing piece “Be proud of yourself” and of it had a subtitle then that would have read as ‘who do expect your NUMERO UNO supporter to be if not yourself‘ ? because technically that is what I’m touching on today.

Okay so down to business now … There is absolutely nothing wrong with receiving moral support or any other form of support, encouragement and motivation YET the best form of all these oomph is the one which you’d give to yourself. Look I am so proud to be a female and that of color in these times when my gender is making moves and wins in numbers and if you listen to the reason behind the many success stories of these females you’d learn that they had been their biggest and number one fan from grass to grace 🤝before family and or sponsors came along.

Basically what I’m trying to say is that you need to get off that spot of furniture that already has the shape of your behind designed on it and make a move. Look support yourself. Wipe away your own tears. Wear your best outfit. Look your best but first and before all dwell in your most productive emotions. How many of us can recall that emotions play a mega part in our lives and its growth💆 and it forms the biggest part of your growth too ✅. People say do not rely on your emotions … *for certain decisions* and yet the mega truth remains without ones emotions you are nothing . For a body part can be removed and you’ll function quite well yet you WON’T function without no emotions 💆.

Like how often do you congratulate yourself for doing something that people are always going to criticize or have an opinion about just because they can. Like how often do you or do you even congratulate yourself for doing something you struggled a lot to complete and or achieve yet to others it is a simple task 💣. Look you got to learn to be your very own source of motivation because true others too will benefit along with your progress yet you for one being the root benefactor of your progress have got to be your NUMERO UNO ¹supporter , ²encouragement, and ³motivation. Look everything in life comes worth and maybe with a price and all you got to do now is know what you want , when you want it , why you want it , how you want it and then from there GO FOR IT WITH YOUR OWN SUPPORT UNTIL ALL THE OTHER FORCES COME ALONG.

Ladies and gentlemen that was my art piece for the day hope it is going to help you grow if you haven’t been part of the growth yet to reach great lengths snd strengths … mwah 💕

You are you for you 🌹

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Hey guys lady Cïey here on script with yet another piece of versatility.

Even with family members we are already singled out as being great to always render them a singled out favour or task. Look sharing your talents with no expectation(s) of pay whatsoever is a great character build up because even the bible encourages us to do good unto those we know cannot repay our kindness because then the good Lord will be out rewarder 👍. Yet with all of that said and done the bible also speaks heavily against being ignorant.

Life carries a sad reality with it and that is the reality that certain people are going to take advantage of your kindness , reliability, accessibility and accountability.

I have had my share of having my kindness considered my weakness. I’m said to have taken after my paternal grandmother who was a strong , caring , loving and remarkable woman. She had a huge heart and loved dearly. I am a very open person. I always push to be sensitive with everyone. Once I choose someone it takes a lot for me to turn my favour away. Once I stIck to the idea of being there for someone and I overlook all your faults it genuinely takes a hectic deed for me to give up and walk away from everything YET once I say I AM DONE THEN I AM DONE .

Someone special I know loves saying “time is a teller of tales” and indeed it is. With every talent , character and trait comes a responsibility or even more at times and I’ve jotted these responsibilities down to two – ¹ maintaining the TCT ( talent , character and trait) and ² not being ignorant of when the TCT is being taken for granted.

Trust me you are not and I repeat you are not the problem because of your kindheartedness , they are the problem because they cannot see and or value the greatness you are worth and the growth you bring with you.

So you be you for you but do not deny potential others the opportunity of experiencing what you’re worth and helping you grow because past quantities of overnight water did not appreciate you . You deserve the best and nothing but that because you are come second to nobody 😘

Silence is not weakness

Posted on by Cïey Dada 🎨

Hey. Hi. Hello and how welcome back to a daily dose of what randomly cooks up in my head if not it’s not inspired by a sermon.

So today’s infamous topic is on silence. In the world keeping silent is known to make one weak , well nope I beg to differ. Let’s take a very simple example that should be very relatable. The infamous scenario of when the whole class gets into trouble for a few jelly heads or head. At that very moment you’d wonder if you should speak up about him/her/them or maybe not. In many similar scenarios you could easily be a hero or caught guilty of the deed. At times in that moment (s) it’s best to keep silent before the educator lashes out on you, 🌘

Try and recall with me to a time when withholding your opinion actually saved you a great ordeal. You know perhaps silence is the best remedy at times. Maybe it’s est to be considered of folly because you wanted to justify and or clear yourself. Even in life there will be unfair situations in literally 360° of a turn you’ll choose to take , you’d still find yourself corned. I say save yourself the trouble and drama that the desire and or urge to vindicate yourself comes with. Live a little , lay down your hair a little more and empty snd your head by choosing silence. Reality is you’ll feel despondent about keeping your silence, yes but once you choose to deny certain corners of life your blessing of speech and choose which, when and where to practice the art of speech this automatically becomes your new lifestyle that brings about a better version of yourself you’ll fall in love with 🤭💞

Signing out from Cïey Dada with my art piece for the day , hope it enlightens a great treasure in you 💋

Trauma/traumatic experience (s) supervision

Posted on by Cïey Dada 🎨

Well hello there, how you de and how do you do🥀. I’mma need you for a few minutes quickly. I’m no physic but I know you’ll be left deep in thought of reflection or maybe nostalgic emotions flows. I hope this post fulfills it’s purpose and it’s not a trance of thought or glance post.

Today I intend to take you through a trauma talk. How could trauma be described ❓. Dictionary definition for trauma says :¹ Any serious injury to your body
²A state of great shock or sadness caused by a particular   event
With today’s post I’mma be elaborating and focusing on the second definition. The best example of this trauma is death. Death is truly like the thief it is described to be since it steals peoples’ peace , comfort, joy , security and strength. I have never experienced death of a close family member but I’ve seen people change because of death. None of them were ever the same again but then again this is when things take a turn for the worst. Most people in our communities and or society’s make use of *they/I/we have never been the same again ever since* , phrase as reference to when their lives hit rock bottom. Truly I can never understand this loss but I know first hand that dwelling in your loss , sorrows had never and never brings about anything positive and or productive.

May we learn to channel the energy invested on dwelling on our trauma to better ourselves and others. We are called by God to survive. The Lord takes no pleasure in seeing our tears and the heavens rejoices when we push through and conquer the trauma. In a world filled with uncertainties may we learn or propose to create our own certainties with Christ as our aid.

There is a song that goes (I’m taking part of the chorus) :I know that I can make it
With him I know I can stand
Cause no matter what may come my way, my life is in his hands

As offsprings of Jesus’s disciples we need to learn to serve God right where we are and we got to learn to allow God to teach us what we ought to know. Though trauma causes us to loose track of our move(s) at times our main aim in life should be to get saved and stay saved.

That’s what I thought to share with your intelligence today. I do ask that no offence be taken for as to how I understand and or explain the traumatic experience acceptance – and – closure period because none was meant. I just wanna grow with you,have you grow with me and together we grow
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